I'm learning logistic regression and $L_2$ regularization. The cost function looks like below.
$$J(w) = -\displaystyle\sum_{i=1}^{n} (y^{(i)}\log(\phi(z^{(i)})+(1-y^{(i)})\log(1-\phi(z^{(i)})))$$
And the regularization term is added. ($\lambda$ is a regularization strength)
$$J(w) = -\displaystyle\sum_{i=1}^{n} (y^{(i)}\log(\phi(z^{(i)})+(1-y^{(i)})\log(1-\phi(z^{(i)}))) + \frac{\lambda}{2}\| w \|$$
Intuitively, I know that if $\lambda$ becomes bigger, extreme weights are penalized and weights become closer to zero. However, I'm having a hard time to prove this mathematically.
$$\Delta{w} = -\eta\nabla{J(w)}$$ $$\frac{\partial}{\partial{w_j}}J(w) = (-y+\phi(z))x_j + \lambda{w_j}$$ $$\Delta{w} = \eta(\displaystyle\sum_{i=1}^{n}(y^{(i)}-\phi(z^{(i)}))x^{(i)} - \lambda{w_j})$$
This doesn't show the reason why incrementing $\lambda$ makes weight become closer to zero. It is not intuitive.